Strangeness of Strangers

So today something weird happened to me, full details on my personal blog (LINK) but basically I had a complete stranger berate me for no reason whilst in the City Centre this evening, all over a stupid face I pulled to my partner when someone walked in front of me taking a photo. It was like one of those sod law moments, my camera finally wanted to take this picture and he wandered in front of it just as it had snapped it, so as you do the fake “OMG why oh why does this happen” look came out.

Crime of the century I guess! Enough to have a stranger read me the riot act and send me home tearful on the next bus! My camera went straight in the drawer instead of being emptied and me gleefully playing with my photos because I don’t want to be reminded of it.

After I had my emotional five minutes (what can I say? I’m a weak and feeble emotional wreck at the best of times!) it got me wondering this:

Why do strangers bother to open their mouths and give you a piece of their mind?

Especially when it wasn’t something awful! I mean it could have been much worse, I could have been REALLY angry at the man and pushed him or something, or, like she did, have a go at him for walking in front of me. I did neither, I made a funny face and was about to get on with my evening. It wasn’t even like the man would have taken offence…. He was long gone by that time, long gone by the time I’d pulled the face!

Why is some random person in a big crowd worth “calling out” on something? What did she get from this confrontation? What was she planning on getting from it? Was she out to ruin someone’s night? Will this make her all tingly on the inside thinking she’d righted an injustice of the world? Is she planning on teaching her child that being rude to people in the street is acceptable and giving people the benefit of the doubt over something you perceive to be the most vilest of things is wrong? I just don’t get it!

At the end of the day she is lucky I reacted to it by shrinking into my shell and looking for the closest gap in the crowd to leave by so she didn’t see me cry! My sister and her friends would have had a totally different reaction, one her child would not have liked to see happen. One or two of my sisters male friends if I had been their girlfriend (thankfully I’m not) would have done something even worse to her. So why the hell when she doesn’t know how one person will react to her sense of entitlement in accusing strangers of being pathetic would she do it?

It is a question I don’t think I’ll ever be able to answer myself.

To me I’d just like strangers to stay that, strangers. And the stranger ones I meet like her the more I don’t want to go out there and meet people or go to events.

The question I guess being to all you out there is would you ever berate someone for something that pointless?
Is it just me or does everyone have a pretend OMG look they do when something stupid happens?
Do you have any instances of strangers suddenly piping up with complaints about you out of the blue?
Or have you decided to right the wrongs of people out there and call strangers out on face pulling etc?


World of Tanks Blogging imminent!

So very soon we should be getting a feature up and running about World of Tanks. It’ll be run by one of our quieter forum members who spends a lot of time and money on the game, it’ll feature tips and tricks as well as links to pictures of his conquests and failures.

Of course I will also take part a little and maybe do a weekly “best hits” because my failures aren’t anything important (they are 90% of the time I play and usually end with me falling off of things.)

This running alongside my Minecraft blog will give us two gaming features on this site, so rejoice! Or maybe not!

Minecrafting #2

I have had a few little problems with getting screencaps these last few days so unfortunately there isn’t any more “in making” photos of my Pyramid, but Minecraft friends IT IS ALIVE!!!!

The Pyramid of Ook


I think it was 56×56, hollow on the inside as there is a main chamber and a “dungeon” chamber. This is my first massive scale build and I’m pretty pleased with how it turned out.

Want to look inside?



It is simple in design but it does the trick!

Next up for me is a “Lair” as my “thing” with my friends is that I’m the Librarian from Discworld of course this is all Orang-utan style so the “Lair” will probably be tree based.

Please feel free to give any comments back on what you think of my Pyramid and any ideas for what to build after the Liar of Ook!



GeekMind Forum

So just a plug for our forum at .

The forum is where this all started and where we are gathering our opinions on posts to make on here. We are just a small community, we’ve had people come and go on the forum over the year we’ve been open and we are always looking for new friends.

What can you expect on there?

Well a little bit of everything! In the last year we’ve had a few games up and running (PokΓ©mon ABC, making a story amongst us all, Quiz Night…) talked every episode of Doctor Who to death and back, reviewed many movies and gossiped about trailers and just chilled out!

Of course one of the big reasons for making this page is to bring people in on our discussions, things we’ve been doing over there will be posted on here and hopefully people that find us on here will go over there and check us out, we really are a nice bunch of people and would love to have any new amount of friends to talk to over there about everything and anything.

So why not check us out and get in on the discussion?

Minecrafting #1

I play Minecraft as any Geeks do. Yes I love whacking away at little blocks and building stupid buildings. I’m not very good at it but I do enjoy it greatly. So I thought I’d write up a Minecraft blog, especially documenting the birth of my Pyramid!

Here it is in Step One :

Step One

I’ll have a fuller blog and some update on my Pyramid next week but just to start the ball rolling I thought I’d post.

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